Thank you Dave!

Since Tuesday 6-3-08 he agree'd to me staying in the home, sleeping in a separate room. 6-3, 6-4, 6-5 he left the house coming home after 12:30am each time. But Friday, Saturday and Yesterday he stayed home after working the whole weekend, actually spent time with me all afternoon and evening on Saturday I rubbed his feet, made homemade brownies, Sunday he invited me to go with him to his brothers home. Still has me sleeping in separate room. But, at least not so so cold to me. And hadn't pushed the issue of divorce, separation or me moving out since 6-3-08. I began having meals prepared for him, his laundry done, lunches packed; I never question or nag him, I just trying to be calm am friendly.

However, just this morning 6-10-08 he calls me from his job at 6:50am, to tell he hasn’t changed his mind, feels his life is being taken from him, he’s very disappointed with his life, doesn’t want to have to answer to anyone, is uncomfortable because I'm acting as though he never told me how he felt about splitting up, that living the way we are is disfunctional, feels in his heart we are not meant to be together, etc etc. I told him I was not leaving the home; I was just going to keep loving him. I said “Love bears all things, Love endures all things, and Love is patient. That in our marriage vows it said What God has joined together let man not separate” I told I didn’t get married to just a couple months later decide-gee this isn’t what I want. I told him I thought there was much more to this than he thought it wasn’t worth just getting a divorce over. I asked if there was someone else he claims no, I asked what it was he wanted to do that I couldn’t “support” him he said that I wasn’t supportive (I am-but not I guess to what he desires me to be)

My Pastors wife said that Steven’s flesh doesn’t know how to handle me not arguing or railing on him. He doesn’t know how to handle or believe someone will still keep loving him even in the situation. She said because there is so much pray going on for him that there is a huge spiritual warfare going on all around him.

Sorry to ramble, just confused hurt, & angry. The Lord works in ways I obviously don’t understand & I’m praying is working in Steven’s heart for his salvation.

Thanks again,
Dana

Thanks for the encouragement DAve. I'm Praying hard, trying not to worry where he goes at night. He leaves the house & doesn't come back till 12-1pm. But I'm praying the Lord to take my concerns away and let the Lord do his work in Steven.
I appreciate the words of encouragement!
In Jesus Name,
Dana

Well as of yesterday, my husband has agreed to me staying in the home. However, I'll sleep in a different room. He's requested I not do his laundry, pack his lunches. He doesn't want me "catering" to him. I told him I'd honor his request even though I would desire to do those things for him. At least if we are still living under the same roof, the Lord as he works his changes in me. Steven will be able to see them. I did tell my husband I couldn't leave, and that I wasn't going to argue with him. I was just going to continue to love him always. Thanks for your encouragements.
In Jesus name amen.

Your prayers are sufficient, so I pray as you do, for all the results to be as you've desired them, according to God's plans. In jesus' name I pray. *AMEN*