Greetings in the name of Jesus,I am having a problem.I stay with my cousin because I go to college.There are a few chores in the house that the wife said I should be helping with.Have been doing that,but all of a sudden she has just started telling me that I do not help in the house and that I am being fed for free,am being accomodated for free and yet I am very selfish.Just becuase of waking up one morning and washing my clothes.

I found this a little bit funny,because she has never told me to wash their clothes.She is saved but she complains that I go for overnight prayers and when I come in the morning I just dress up and go instead of staying in the house.

But my problem is,I am the one is looking for my bus fare,my Lunch and money for personal use,she does not give me any money for use.Now I am asking,what do I do?and I have to go to college,from college or when am free I go and do some part time business.

I am thinking of looking for money and vacate,such that she does not keep on mentioning how am being accomadated for free.
This is because I have done my best and I am just trying to balance life.Or what do you think I should do?please advise as you pray for me.I am confused.

After you've told her how you feel about the alleged breach, you then take it to the Lord in prayer if no agreement is reached. Pray that the Lord will bless her with the spirit of the 'golden rule' and do the "WWJD" since you're going to church and learning about the will of God for your life, this is one aspect of picking up the cross and following Jesus, for the tests of your faith have already begun, and you don't yet get what you've learned! Go! and do likewsise! *AMEN*

Father, I pray Bet can find strength in You,that she will do nothing from factional motives through contentiosness, strife, selfishness or unworthy ends_or prompted by conceit and empty arrogance. Instead, in the true spirit of humility, Bet reguards others as better or equal to herself, she esteems and looks upon and is not concerned merely for her own interests, but also for the interest of others, she lets this same attitude and purpose and humble mind be in her which was in Christ Jesus. Thank You Father, in Jesus name. Amen&amen. (this is part of a prayer from: Prayers that Avail Much.)