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marriage Suzie	Feb 11 2005
Oh Frank, as I read your message I just started crying. . Ron came home tonight 2:30am and was drunk, he woke me up and was yelling.he went into the kitchen before he woke me up and apparently what set him off was the trash can was full and the cats were in the house . He emptied the trash on the kitchen floor, busted a bowl in the sink (I like old things, I bought the bowl at an antique store), he tore the light switch thingy off the wall, I have to look around and see what else he did. Alcohol makes a person stupid. I really thought when he got arrested for a DUI a couple weeks ago, and then came home he would try to quit drinking. He lost his job for drinking on the job (this happened the same night he got the DUI) but he was out drinking and driving tonight. That is so dangerous on so many levels. I don't like the person I have become, I am on pins and needles, I am a nervous wreck, I lost so much weight, I am working 10 or more hours a day. My youngest daughter Brooke has an activity almost every night of the week, swimming and gymnastics. When I get home I cook, clean and go to bed. I never really thought my life would be like this, I have a well paying job but it is so stressful, I have good kids, a nice home, and a husband who drinks himself silly. He has cheated on me and I forgave him but this is it. I don't know how to pray for him anymore. I don't know if I want to. Why did I want him to come back? Why would I let his alcohol problem become my problem. Why am I not strong enough to just walk away. What is it about alcohol that keeps people so dependant on it. I know I need to go to confession and I am friends with my Priest but I am too ashamed to let anyone at the Church know my situation. I just don't understand myself anymore.
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Suzie Irina	Feb 11 2005
Hi Suzie, I'm so sorry to hear what is going on in your family. After listening a lot of peole here, I realized that my problems are nothing what other people go through. I wish I could help you, or Leander, but I found a strength to get out from bad marriage, and now I'm much more happier. But, if you love your man you, probably, need to fight. I think you need to have a faith in a God, and listen what he is telling to you. Watch for signs, they are always around you, and you will find what to do. I will definately pray for you. I wish everybody happiness and great health. Dear God, please comfor Suzie, bring more piece and love into her life. Lift her up into your arms, and tell her that everything will be fine. Please, please, Lord help her. Thank you for answering my prayer. In Jesus name. Amen!
Suzie Leander	Feb 11 2005
Oh Suzie, I'm so sorry about your situation. You never asked for any of this. I wish I could just comfort you at this time. Alchohol, drugs and smoking are all evil addictions. When I read Stomie Omartians 'The Power of a Praying Husband' there was one thing that was mentioned. Sometimes as wives we become so furious with our husbands and if your'e like me I wonder why I even got married, but what she said was that it's okay to tell God that you are angry with him and that you don't feel like praying for him. Admit this to God and ask him to guide you. I know you have been so much and it would be easy for me to say that you should keep the faith and continue praying for his release from this. Just this evening after a very busy day Brent came home and he ignored me, this breaks my heart. I don't know what to say to him anymore, it feels like I don't even know him anymore. Shortly after that his cellphone rang. He ran downstairs to answer it. When I asked he called he said I'm not telling you! I don't think I will ever understand men. Why they do the things they do only God knows. I will be praying for you. Thanks for listening to my problems again. Lord God, I lift up Suzie to you. Lord not only is she a hard worker, wonderful mother but she is trying to be a good wife. Lord this is so difficult given her husbands addictions and actions when he gets angry. Lord come over this man in a mighty way. Help with a strong force to let go of the alchohol. May you touch his eyes and heart so that he may see what this is doing to his wife and daughter. Convict him Lord and I pray for a peaceful resolution for this family. In Jesus Name. Amen
marriage Marilyn	Feb 11 2005
Lord please bless Suzie. Lord please help her husband to quit drinking. Lord please Let Suzie to know what she needs to do. In your name Amen
peace to Suzie... moni	Feb 11 2005
Suzie, you seem to be full of WHY, WHY, WHY? We may never know why things unfold as the do, all you can do is keep seeking your Father for His peace, comfort and wisdom, to make life changing decisions, hold onto what you already have, God's word! I've had that spirit of anxiety to overcome me and leave me a frazzled wreak, BUT GOD! The more you keep crying out to God the less you will feel weak, cry out for His strength and courage and get MAD, MAD, MAD at the devil, that's the real enemy. The devil doesn't want to upset you, the only goal is to KILL you! So, hold on, stand still, seek God and keep seeking and seek some more! Father, I praise You for Your unfailing love and for caring about EVERYTHING that concerns Suzie, thank You for hearing her cry and delivering her from ALL EVIL! I denounce that evil illegal,lieing spirit that is bringing division between she and her husband! I rebuke that foul spirit that is trying to kill her husband and it must leave him RIGHT NOW, in Jesus name, amen, amen, amen! I praise You for touching her heart and mind with a fresh assurance that You are still in control, with new strength, new courage, and new peace! Thank You for bringing deliverance, healing, forgiveness and total resotration for this marriage and family! Bless You Father for working EVERYTHING out for Your glory and Suzie and her family's good!
Suzie	Feb 11 2005
Suzie you can talk toGOD thruogh Jesus derectly and confess to him.i hopeyou do whats good for you and the Kids God dont want you living like thisLord help her in your name Jesus iask Amen
Marriage	Feb 11 2005
Dear Lord, we pray for Suzie and ask that you will provide to her reconcilation in this marriage. Dear Lord, take away the difficulties in this marriage. In Jesus Name We Pray Amen.

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