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"What's love got to do with it?" Before you become angry Freddie, please understand that this is not my intent, but my intent is to get you to think about your circumstances in a new light. God has done his part, he will not force love on anybody, its our choice. Your situation reminds me of my past marriage, where I had a selfish partner also, and this is the only conclusion that one can draw when your mate breaks the covenant vows for selfish reasons, and I'm not one for making excuse for them, or blaming the devil, when we have a choice in our decision making. My ex-wife used me until I decided that enough was enough! I started thinking about my life, and not devoting my existence in hope of her having a change of heart and deciding to come back to the marriage after she has given the better part of herself to vanity, and then returning the leftovers to me, which was totally unacceptable. The word says, that we have a right to divorce in the matter of adultery, just like God divorces us when we commit adultery with other gods by serving them. I'm telling the other side, the side that's not talked about, but should be. I'm not disputing God's promises to do the impossible, but he also wants us to use wisdom. It's a fact that we have very selfish people in the world, people who will use mother, father, brother, sister, wife, husband, etc, etc, to have their way. These are people that you don't want to be involved with, because they cannot commit to teamwork, to oneness, to one for all! and all for one! Excuse me young and old ladies,but the adage of "Why buy the cow, if you can get the milk free! is alive and well to the players" The other woman is getting all the loving, and your getting all the responsibilities of taking care of his other needs. Don't continue to allow yourself to be used, love don't behave in this manner. I hate the message, but I love its truth. I mean you no harm, just love that tells the truth. *AMEN*
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