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Brothers and sisters in christ I have come before you to ask for your prayers that the Lord deliver me from all adulterous behavior. I try not to fail in this area of my life but BATTLE with it on a DAILY BASIS....... I can not do it alone I want to please GOD but I continue to fail. Please help me with your prayers and feel free to give any type of christian advice, specially if you have battled this demon that I am encountering RIGHT NOW.....PLEASE HELP!!!!!
My wife of 15 yrs. said she to was fat up with this life of being married. She went on to have an affair with another man that she met at work. He must have really charmed her for her to do this to me. I had built up so much anger that I was going to seek out this person and make him respect me for the man I am. But belive me my only friend at that time was GOD and Mary the blessed virgin. They both help me though some of the roughest times that I wish on no one. I prayed every night but did not question as to why this has happened to me. I went on by myself after asking her my wife if she would like to attend counciling but she refused. One month later and praying every night she came by and asked me to forgive her and I did for all the right reasons I love my wife and everyone sins and no one is perfect. My heart was broken in millions of pieces but my compassion is strong because of the Blessed Virgin Mary and her blessings and my prayers to her and to GOD. A thought came into my head forgive and forget and seek out no one for revenge you are a better man and I will take care of thing my own way was what this thought told me. My wife and I are still seperated but we see each other everyday and our love is much strong than before. Trust, Freedom, compassion and the love of GOD will help all, don't give up pray and let your prayers come from you heart. I know what you are going through and is the worst feeling in the whole world one that no one person should go through. It will take time as to how long I am still trying to find out but be patience and let them think things over and let them come back when they are ready. It will be your choice and no one elses wether to except them back or not as for me 15yrs is along time to throw away. Hope that this helps you and GOD bless you and your family.
Why is it that the ones closest to you hurt you with actions of adultry, abandonment, neglect, slander, etc.? This person close to me is my husband. Why would he lie, cheat and deceive me and the kids for over 27 years? Why we he use my forgiveness as a tool to induce pain? Why would he negatively use up a big portion of my life? Why must I forget the hurts from yesterday, just to start life anew to relive the prison all over again? Why must I submit and not defend myself against these attacks? And I view them as attacks. Why must I roll over and take the abuse because it is the Christian thing to do? I realize what the Lord said about fighting battles and vengence. The pain never stops, the thoughts never cease and I feel tortured.
I am reading all these and see that the husbands are having the affairs. Well, in my case, I made the mistake of having an affair. I have been married for 18 years. The adultry happened 17 years ago. My husband and I were married at 18 and 19 with a baby. I don't know what I was thinking, I wish I could take that whole Summer back. I didn't tell my husband about it and the other day he asked me again about it and I had to tell him. He was CRUSHED. I think he is going to leave me. I can see the hurt in his eyes. I have tried to assure him that I have NOT been unfaithful to him since, that I am a different person and I hate the person I was 17 years ago. I have asked God to forgive me but I just feel that since I have kept it in for so many years that maybe God feels that I am not worth it. I am a miserable person for what I did - I hate it!! I don't want to lose my family. My husband and I have grown so much over the last 17 years and it could all be destoryed in a day. Please pray for us. We have three beautiful children but I just don't know if we can survive this.
Brokenhearted
My husband has left me. He is committing adultry, we are legally separated. Nothing seems to help the pain. I keep hearing that God will help you. I keep hearing that he is talking to me. But I can't seem to hear him. I have gone to the hospital to get psch. help and they gave me pills. That doesn't take away the pain in my heart. The pain of my husband telling me after 19 years he hates me. I don't understand what I am supposed to do. I can't seem to get over the pain. My husband isn't trying to get back with me and has the audacity to attend church where we were married! How can his minister say hey, go ahead and sleep with this other woman and divorce your wife? What kind of man of God doesn't try to heal the family? I just want the pain in my heart to stop. I don't see why over half of year of pain I have had to endure this. What am I to have learnt? That I am never to be loved by a man?
Dear Lord, we ask that you will deliver this person from adultry. In Jesus Name We Pray Amen.
tammie.....thoes were good words led of God.
Leander.....My husband had hurt me in the same way when we were married, years ago. Do you know that was over 25 years ago? And it still hurts too this day when I think of it. The pain he put me through, will never go away. If you care for your mate, even a small amount, why do such a thing. To get even for something that should be left for God to handle, is taking you out of Gods will. When you do that, your going to fine problems mount up on you. It's God way too let you know that He is not pleased with what you are doing. What would happen, if in the mist of your sin, you died???? Do you really think God would allow you into heaven. Check out His Word and see for yourself where you would go. HELL!!!!!! Now, does that sin seem worth it for eternity????Wouldn't you rather go to heaven?God will only go so far with your sinning on purpose. Then he will let you die in it. This is a very serious matter. Don't take it soo lightly. I really don't think you want to pay that price. UNending hell!!!! Check out God's Word and see what He says will happen if you don't change your evil and wicked ways. On the other hand, when you say NO to SIN God will bless you abundently. God is a God of love and mercy. But He is also a just and jellous God. When you put anything before Him, It causes a spiritual death. It brings Satan into a legel hold on you that only Gods mercy can help you. God is not to be mocked. Why put Jesus back on the cross with shame. You don't realize what you are doing to your self and all who are around you. Is it worth it???? IS that SIN worth going too hell for????? Why be a fool for Satan???? He is only laughing at you. God gives you the strength to say NO to SIN. All you have to do is ask Our Lord to help you. That is what He is waiting for you to say. You can't do it by yourself. You need God to help. every time the operatunity comes along Ask God to give you the strength to say NO and then say NO!!!! ASk God for the full armor of God to be put on you. He will hear,and help you then. God wants the glory. Why not give it to Him the next time . Some times fasting is the answer. Ask God what HE wants. BOW DOWN TO JAHOVIA. Then allow Him to have His own way with you. I wanted to get back at my husband. Soo I did the same thing too him. Now I'm still paying for my revenge. But I'm thankful God is a mercyful God. He help me throuth so much. And caused me to become more mature in Him. You will be blessed abundently once you do. Father have mercy on Leander. Help her to see the path she is heading on. Open your Word to her soo she can see what you say about this sin in her life. Also show her how to put the full armor of God on too help her have victorys in her battles. Thank you Father for answering this prayer even before I ask it. In Jesus's Name, Amen.
I am in a marriage where this is has been and is continuing to happen. I love my husband and wish he would find his way back to Jesus and he will be refocused on what is right. I hope and pray for the marriage to be restored and be better than it ever was. I am praying that Jesus helps all that are hurt by this affair. Please deliver all who are adulterous back to the warmth of your touch. I pray that this person finds the strength to rid Satan of their lives, with Jesus everything is possible.
In Jesus name amen
Father God, I pray for this person to stop breaking your commandments. I pray for the pain that others are suffering to end right now. I pray father for you to work on this persons heart in a mighty way. Lord Jesus, I pray for this person to steer clear of there is any urge to commit this sin. I pray for forgivness and healing. In Jesus Name. Amen
I have been married for 23 years now. On our 10th wedding anniversary my husband spent it with someone else. The pain I went though is indescribable. After 13 years I can still feel it. You need to deside to stop! Just for the simple fact that it is wrong. Adultry is the most deceptive way to let others know how self centered you are. You need to be God centered. If you were, adultry would be far from your heart. Adulrty is in your heart that is why it is a struggle. If you can't be trusted in your relationships then maybe you can't be trusted in other areas like work or just your word. You need to take a look at your self, deep inside. The depth that only you and God can see. you need to make a choice. Am I interested in having contacts that would hurt God, my wife or husband? My children? you need to look at adultry with God's eyes. It is filthy discusting and immoral. We need to be just as disgusted with any sin as God our Father would be. If you had been betrayed, the way you are betraying, you would not be so tempted. The way our brains, as humans, are wired is that what ever we are focused on is what we will go to. When these thought come to you, you need to immediately go into prayer feeling and seeing it for what it is. At that time you need to refocus on something else. The physical lust is secondary. The primary is thought. Father in heaven, I lift this person up to you and ask you to help this person refocus. When we take our eyes off you Lord, sin happen in our weakness and our imperfect ways but with the strength you will provide this person the enemy will flee. In the name and the blood of JESUS I command you satan to flee fro the life of this person and take your helpers with you!!!! You say lord that what ever two or more people request in prayer you will deliver. Help this person to remember to pray this prayer EVERY time the thought comes and see it as it is. Satan's temptation trying to have victory over you. In Jesus most precious name amen. You need to pray something like this every time even if it is ever 2 minutes. Keep your focus on God, when we look away from Him and his almighty and all powerful wisdom we sin. Keep your focus on what is right and feel how good it feels in your heart and mind when you do. I will pray more for you. Remember, stop the pain. Your pain, the pain of who you are being adulterous with and those who know or might know. Make the decision!
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