Prayer Request

I am in hell right now. My husband wants a divorce after 16 years of marriage. he doesn't care. he says our marriage was never ordained by God and he doesn't love me anymore. He is being nasty in court and is planning to accuse of a lot of false things in order to win in court. He hates me and wants to see us despondent and out in the street. I think he is cheating and I also think that he is living a gay lifestyle as well. I don't think God can restore this marriage so I am asking that I have favor with the judge where I am the sole custodian of my child and he will only receive supervised visitation rights because he has done an inappropriate thing with my daughter. I need a miracle for things to go my way. I am so depressed and feel hopeless with the situation. He is gloating and arrogrant at the moment and he doesn't care at all what happens to us. I was a stay at home mom and now I am trying to hold the home together with a very small job. I don't want to lose my home because my daughter does find some security in it and then we would have to put the dogs to sleep because they wouldn't be able to leave with us in an apartment. The problems seem endless because as this goes on I am finding out more and more horrible things that this man has done and is doing. He is serving the enemy. Thank you.

At first I did think or thought I heard God's voice and telling me that I needed to stand for marriage restoration and I was very excited. I wrote a letter to my husband asking for forgiveness and that I was going to stand for the marriage and he in turn using the letter to nail me in court. He uses the letter to his advantaged and he still continues to do evil things to his own family. I have seen the rejoice ministries but my husband says that our marriage was never ordained by God and I now believe that it really wasn't. I have no love for him anymore. I am working on myself because I believe in order to continue I do desire to serve God more and more. I have asked God to touch and change my heart and he needs to do a heart transplant in me but as far as the marriage - I don't want marriage restoration. It is not possible in this particular situation. Too much hurt, bitterness, resentment, damage, etc. has gone on. He has even had the nerve to tell me in my face that he never loved me and never really wanted to marry me. I can't be with a person like that I deserve so much better.

Hello,

I'm going through a similar situation with my wife. I believe that God wants me to stand for my marriage. I recommend visiting rejoiceministries.org. There is Hope! Nothing is impossible for God! I will pray for you and your family.

I have decided to go through the divorce. I know people are not perfect but this man has showered with my daughter and I think that is a big deal breaker. I need to protect my daughter from possible sexual abuse. He needs help- God help and and professional help as well. I am in an abusive relationship/marriage and sometimes there are things that cannot be tolerated. I think it is best and healthy for my daughter to not grow up in this chaotic environment.

He keeps lying about everything. Please be in agreement with me that I will have favor with the judge. I am asking for sole custody (that in itself would be a miracle and no visits -maybe supervised visits if he get intensive counseling even then I don't trust this man around my daughter.

Right now he has temp. thursday 2 hour visits and over night weekend visits. I have been evading them with every excuse I can come up with until our next court date.

Please pray for my daughter's safety and protection. If she goes with him overnight I cannot protect her from this possible molestor. The harm he can do to her keeps me up at night. I also pray that he will relinquish his parental rights to her by some miracle. I need a miracle. I feel so helpless that I cannot protect my daughter from him doing something bad to her. I have lost 30 pounds and if I have to I will stand my ground for him not to take her. Pray from me also that if I end up in jail overnight that I will be protected from whatever happens inside the jail. I am a stay at home mom, ballet mom, a Christian woman, I sing in church choir etc.

Lord, please grant her an answer (sign) to her problem. Let her know for sure what she should do. In the mean time please surround her with your protective love and light and keep her and her daughter safe from any and all harm. Please send her extra angels to look after her and her daughter. Give her peace of mind and fill her life once again with joy and harmony. "A wise man will hear and increase learning, and a man of understanding will attain wise counsel." Proverbs 1:5. In Jesus name I pray, Amen.

I had to speak the other day to my husband because he had a visit with my daughter. I don't trust him because he continues to lie to me. Anyway, he went on to say that our marriage was never a God ordained or covenant marriage and I just sat there in amazement. Even before I had accepted Jesus as Lord and Savior of my life, back in high school I remeber praying to God to lead me to a Born again, spirit filled man. He said he never really loved me and in his spirit he said it didn't set right marrying me. That if he stayed with me he would be miserable for the rest of his life. Those words pierce my heart and hurt so much.

I asked God for a sign last night if that is what he wanted me to do -to stand for this marriage because this marriage is gone, stinking of death, my family hates him for what he has done, so much stuff has gone on, unrepairable, and dead. Is it just coincidence or what? Right before I leave to church I get an email with Ephesians 6-10-18 "stand and then a friend at church prays and tells me to fight for my marriage. I am so confused. Are these confirmations or just my wishful thinking because I know for a fact I do still love him and maybe I need to just move on with my life because the divorce is still going through- he wants it to go through, he already has a new life with his new friends etc.

I just don't know. I am going to ask God once more for a sign of comfirmation that He indeed wants me to stand for marriage restoration or just accept the divorce and move on with my daughter. I need to know because I am so confused right now.