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Restore Marriage that ended in divorce Dom	Nov 05 2007
I am a divorced man. My wife left me because she said I did give her what she needed in our marriage. I did not take her out that often because of money issues. I was a devoted husband and always cared for the family. Now that my kids are grown and money is coming in, I would be able to go out and do things with her but she divorced me. I am so hurt and lonely. I feel I am lost in a world when all things were going to start to go good. She seems to be making many freinds and looking down at me. My heart was always there to please her. All I want is to have God find me some happiness and if there is a chance for her to come back to me and start fresh. I do beleive in miracles and I do pray a lot. Maybe someone else has more power than me and can help me pray to get me through this. I am hurting to much and I can not handle it. I feel weak. I've been good to her but she does not see the positive in me. Please help me with prayers. I know the Lord can give me a chance. God Bless You All
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25 years after divorce - still standing from washington	May 06 2008
I divorced my husband 25 years ago and he has been married to another woman for 22 years. In this life everyone always says to "get over it" and God knows I have tried. What I have accomplished doing is learing how to unconditionally love him and today I don't "want him back", but I have never been able to "let go". I want to see my family together again and God glorified. I want not harm or hurt to come to his wife, but need the prayer and support of those who believe as I do. Please pray for me and keep the encouragement coming.
DIVORCE Mr. Wadsworth	Feb 17 2008
My dear friends, I was left too, THREE TIMES now. How hurtful could it get? Oh dear God! It was very dreadful that it almost take the life out of me. But you know what, I am positive in Divorce and I am okay to support it as long as two parties accepted that they really needed to part ways. Common, marriage is a bind, yes, but what binds us is our soul. Our heart. And there are times that you feel, this person is not meant for you. Okay, you had kids, you had a life, you had everything but often times, this would become nonsense as in the feel of your heart, you needed a change. You needed to prosper. We are still living as individuals, though attached to anybody or attached because of kids.. still we are individuals. Individuals who must not live for other people's sake alone. We are humans who has good desire deep within our hearts that needs to be accomplished before our life ends. I am sure to you, those who ended up in divorce, must accept, must live and move on. Because I tell you folks, love is never jealous, love is patient, love is kind. So, if your partner divorced you - and still you love them - just hang on. Forget the bitterness. Hang on with the love, not with the person because God has a lot more to offer you that as you know, when one door closes, a lot of doors open. Just let go, love the kids, gove them the best of care and who knows.. your wives / husbands might come knocking around. Or you will find the true love you long for time, and you can it - FREEDOM.
Divorce is of the Devil	Dec 27 2007
I'm in the exact same boat and have many of the same feelings you do. I was not perfect and made my share of mistakes, but I loved my wife, treated her well, supported her, and really just wanted to please her. She is very attractive and is now being with guys 10-15 years younger-(20-27yrs old)and now doesn't seem to care much about being a mom--at least a good mom. My ex-wife lives right down the street and my 3 kids and I have to pass her house everyday and since our divorce 1 and 1/2 years ago she's shacked up (sleeping together on a nightly basis) with 5 different men lasting about 3 months at a time. It hurts tremendously as I think you can imagine as a Christian guy that loves his wife, and on top of that, there's other things happening that affects the kids. I love her, I hate what she's doing and has done to me and our kids, but I love her. Of course I pray for her, and when I have the opportunity, I try to share what truth I can...books, CD's, articles, talking, whatever...I just don't want her to be lost-and right now-she's spiritually blind and decieved by the enemy. I may be naive, but I put 100% faith in God that He will reach her one day, she'll correct her life and get right with God, and maybe at that point-we can be together again and have the marriage God wants us to have. Sadly, it will be after much pain, many scars, and a lot of lost time...it's a shame really. Throughout the experience, I have really gotten closer to God. I feel I understand His principles better and it makes me even more determined to live for Him-to be an example for my kids and my ex. I'm living for God and His standards and to please Him...and I will never waver off of that. Satan is attacking individuals, families, children, communities, and nations with the far reaching effects of divorce--it tears down relationships with people and with God--it destroys the very basic understanding and principles God gave us to have successful relationships with Him and with each other. Keep praying and living for God...NEVER quit as hard as it gets and how impossible things may seem. NOTHING IS IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD, and it's never too late to do the right thing by being obedient to God!
Pray for our marriage Brad from Mississippi	Dec 19 2007
My wife of 18 years has been in prayer for some time hoping that I would wake up and change. I was saved years ago but only started going to church last year...a 'deal' I made with God if he would let her biopsy come out negative. The Holy Spirit has been growing in me which I think triggers the enemy to step up his game. My wife has decided to move out because she can't take it. The whole experience has been a spiritual awakening that I believe will point me so much closer to God. And I believe at this point that the only way that she will come back is when I have become much more like Christ and am glowing like an ember. And I can't proceed with "getting her back" as a motive. This is definitely a spiritual attack. Thank you Milton for your advice. Your advice is something I believe in. It is bold and scriptural. Satan, I rebuke you in Jesus name and command you to take your hands off my marriage and my relationship. Jesus was crucified, buried and in 3 days was gloriously resurrected. All things are possible with God, the only true power that has ever existed. I ask you and pray to you Lord to loose into me and my wife the spirit of love, unity, and joy according to your word. Amen. Thank God for pointing me to these brothers and sisters in Christ. I was beginning to do the slow retreat from the belief that Jesus would heal all as the Word shows He does. I was falling back to the "well, if it's God's will" platform instead of continuing to remember and operate from the understanding that I am anointed and Jesus told us that He came so we would have life more abundantly. I don't need to go through a divorce to know it does not resemble abundance. Friends and brothers in Christ, I ask all of you with all my soul, please pray for the restoration of my marriage. Our marriage will forever stand as a testament to the Glory of God and a cornerstone for many, many brothers and sisters to follow. If Paul could be saved then I can and will be.
My Dead Marriage is Alive Again	Dec 15 2007
My husband divorced me and promised me that he would never return again. He had someone else. He had found the love of his life. After several years of being married to the other woman he found out that the little girl that he thought was his was another's man. Her then knew that the Lord was calling him back to our home. We are happily married now. We thank Our Father for His mighty hand .Delaware.
My Miracle	Dec 15 2007
I am a firm believer in miracles as the Lord has just restored my marriage after being divorced for ten years. The Lord brought us back together AGAIN!!!!!Praise your Holy Name!!!!!!!!!! Happy in Texas
miracles in marriages	Dec 15 2007

Restoring Marraiges Darren	Nov 21 2007
Just wanted to encourage you by stating that you are not alone in this battle. I divorced my wife in January this year, sold our house and put my share of the money into my business. God has humbled me in my ways and restored my feelings and desires for my wife. She has met another man who is constantly drinking and I am constantly afraid he will get violent with her. I am holding onto God's promises according to 1 Cor 7:11 and I believe that because He HATES divorce, then He will see this through for both of us as long as we put Him first, even above the marraige restoration. In my heart I have even said to the Lord, "Lord, I will even give this restoration miracle up for You if You are calling me to do that". Only then, when I release and submit, and make sure that my marraige or my wife doesn't become my 'god' will I know that He will pull me through this and give me and my future wife an awesome testimony that will glorify Him! God bless you brother... I'll be praying for you - please do the same for me also, Darren. x x x
Restore Marriage that ended in divorce Milton Palacio	Nov 20 2007
Again, notice I did not speak as if you were already divorced even though you mentioned that it ended up in divorce. Thisng have to happen in the unseen before they happen in the seen, so see yourself married to her again, speak it as if you were out loud and let the Lord give you this gift of her coming back to you and marrying again. Love! Milton <><
Restore Marriage that ended in divorce a Christian Brother	Nov 20 2007
Dear Friend, I am reading a lot of things in the responses that although are good hearted, are in a way misleading. for example, I read, if it is God's will she will return to you, etc... I am here to tell you that it is God's will remember his own words where he says, "Beloved above all things I want you to prosper, even as your soul prospers" that means prosper financially, spiritually, in relationships, etc. So have no doubt in your mind that God want you to enjoy having your wife back and giving her the things she might feel you did not give her before. Having said that, then I can tell you that your marriage break up comes from the adversary, the enemy, satan, and as a man of God you need to put on his armor and go to battle and fight for your wife. You need to rebuke the devil and command him in Jesus name to take his hands off of your marriage adn your relationship. It is in your power and authority as a believer to take an active stand and fight the devil in this battle and know that you will come out victorious. Do not doubt that you will win for Jesus in on your side, remember that 99% faith is 100% doubt and as long as you doubt in your mind even a little that you can have your wife back, you open the door to the adversary to come in and destroy your marriage forever. Confess with your mouth that you are victorious and that the Lord restores your marriage. First pray for to be filled with the Holy Spirit and cleanse your home and you and your wife from these spirits. What you are facing is not a physical war but a spiritual one, and the main spirits or pricipalities you are fighting are the spirit of rejection, the spirit of abandonement, the spirit of confusion, the spirit of depression, and possibly the spirit of divorce, so I invite you to pray in Jesus name on a daily basis, and in your own words if you want, the following prayer... Spirits and pricipalities of satan mentioned above, I bind you in the name of Jesus Crhist and decalre that all of your works, roots, and strongholds are dead works in my life, my wife's life and those around us, I bind you and loose you from us and command you in Jesus name not to come back into our prescence again. I ask you and pray to you Lord to loose into me and my wife the spirit of love, unity, and joy according to your word. Amen. I pray that you fight the good fight of faith for your wife and not just sit and hope that she comes back. The Lord want you happy and if you use his authority to cast out all these demonds that want to destroy your marriage, hew will as promised "give you the desires of your heart" In Christian Love! Milton Palacio Colombia. SA

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