My dear friends, I was left too, THREE TIMES now. How hurtful could it get? Oh dear God! It was very dreadful that it almost take the life out of me. But you know what, I am positive in Divorce and I am okay to support it as long as two parties accepted that they really needed to part ways. Common, marriage is a bind, yes, but what binds us is our soul and in our heart. And there are times that you feel, this person is not meant for you. Okay, you had kids, you had a life, you had everything but often times, this would become nonsense as in the feel of your heart and you needed a change. You needed to prosper. We are still living as individuals, though attached to anybody or attached because of kids... Still we are individuals. Individuals must not live for other people's sake alone. We are humans who have good desire deep within our hearts that needs to be accomplished before our life ends. I am sure to you, those who ended up in divorce, must accept, must live and move on. Because I tell you folks, love is never jealous, love is patient, and love is kind. So, if your partner divorced you - and still you love them - just hang on. Forget the bitterness. Hang on with the love, not with the person because God has a lot more to offer you that as you know, when one door closes, a lot of doors open.

Just let go, love the kids, and give them the best of care and who knows... Your wives / husbands might come knocking around OR you will find the VERY true love you long for time, and now, you can call it - FREEDOM.

Divorce is not acceptable to God for just any reason...especially for the reason of "I'm just not happy". Re-marriage is forbidden in the New Testament for any reason other than the death of a spouse. If you re-marry after divorce you will be living in adultery. You are only divorced from your convenant spouse in society but not to God. God's intention is not just for us to be happy in whatever way WE feel makes us that. His intention is for us to be holy.....the happiness come with that and the desires of your heart. I'm very amazed of how people in society today have just accepted the destruction of divorce without praying and trusting in God for their marriages to be healed. God can and will restore your marriage if you just Trust that He can, and don't go rushing off to divorce court. This is the very reason our society is collapsing and morality is almost non-existant. The covenant of marriage and family is sacred to God. GOD HATES DIVORCE!!! Read it in Malachi. Read your Bible pertaining to divorce and re-marriage...do a little research and don't read it with selfish purposes of your own fleshly desires in mind. This mind-set has got to stop!

We are often amazed and dismayed of the lords steppiing stones he lays down for us. What appears as disaster leads to his divine plan for us. Don't wish for her to come back. Pray for her to find Gods will for her. Invite her to church and nothing more, it's a good start in the right direction.