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Hello everyone. I'm a catholic and i believe in God! but i need so of other people advice on this and what some of you think. I know this will be long so please read it though. I'm 20 years old and live in Pennsylvania. I had quit school when i was 17 years old. and it has been very hard for me to get a job here. but i keep trying. about 3 years ago i met a girl online and she was from Hawaii. she is now 19. She wanted me to come live with her in hawaii and start a life there and i agreed to try it and to be with her. she bought a plane ticket. april 6th. about 4 days being there. her parents didnt know about me yet but they told her you know. you come home and you go to your room and dont speak to us and dont tell us where your going. maybe you should just move out. well the next day she got a place that you had to share and she payed 45 a night. and the next day on her cell phone voice mail was a message from her mom. saying maybe you should come home till we find you something better. well 4 days later she went home again because she ran out of money. all the time i was there she had sneeked me into her house. well we had fun and together and we're happy. but when she went home things went down hill. i used to lick and kiss her cheek and she would laugh but after she went back home i did that yet and she told me to get away or dont touch me. and then there was days i do that and she laugh and all then little later she be get away and etc. Now her dad asked me online once if i was a reborn again and everything. and he always preaches god to me or everytime i talked to him God was always in the convo! Now This girl is the first born to let ya know. well last friday she got off work and she started to get an attitude she had to call her parents, i got out a cell phone i had an called them for her and handed her the phone. she took the phone "it was a flip phone" and shut the phone on my finger which hurt. and i got angry and pinched her neck. and i later had said i was sorry. but since it was my first time in hawaii she let me stuck somewhere i didnt really know. i called her house and told her parents i was there and everything. well her parents told her to pack my things and then her and her parents came down to where i was and dropped my stuff off. saturday" her and i talked while the parents stayed in the van. she said she might be pregnant and i told her i want to be here because a baby needs a father and a mother. she gave me a smart answer back. well you wont see the baby and i can be the mom and dad of this baby. i was hurt already and i was more hurt that she would say this. i know how hard is without a dad, because mine was killed when i was 2. but my family in Pa and neighbors/friends said she was being cruel and her parents are controlling. i was on phone with her and her mom said hang up on him and she did. i called her cell phone many times and her dad answered an said you have two options go back to Pa or i call the police for harassment. i asked her to come talk to me she said no nothing to talk about.about 4 hrs later she finally did meet me to talk and i told her i loved her why do this, she cried and i guess she was hurt to? but before we met to talk she said i dont love her i was obessed with her?? i said that wasnt true why say this i flew for the first time which was hard to do and leave my family to be with you.. I love you!! well her dad finally met me that day when they came to drop my things off. he was asking things talking about god. i told him i have bad luck and cant get jobs but atleast i am trying.he said no one has bad luck. can people have bad luck? i told him i love his daughter and she loves me but he dont want us together. they told her to stay away from me dont talk to me no more. i have told her my family told her your parents are controlling you. and your parents loved you they would accept me also. but i told her you had me rosanna but you let me get away i loved you but your to blind to see that, why let your parents control your life get out stop it. you also know before rosanna "my girlfriend told me her mom was a nurse at one time but her husband told her to stay home and watch the kids and dont work, now everyone in Pa i know says her parents are controlling, hypocrite's, and they dont do God's word if they do they would accepted me and let us to be together.. I still love this girl and if she is pregnant i told her i will be in this babys life. i told her you do understand? she said yes. but i pray to God she changes this and leaves her parents. Can you all here give advice? oh another thing she had a job and her own money and she bought this cell phone before and her parents said No! but she did anyways. are they controlling?? tips advice help anyone please reply
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Mike,
Hi. I have read your post. I could waffle on with 'advice' but instead will commit to praying for you. The Bible tells us that God knows the plans he has for us, not to harm us but to give us hope and a future (Jermiah 29:11), Even if you can't figure out what is happening God knows! I'm only 31 but so much has happened in my life I didn't want to nor understand even as a theology student as I was some time ago. BUT God has always been faithful. He there's with you walking right with you, interceding for you. Take time out pray, seek God and His purpsoe for your life. Maybe it's right for you two to be togehter, may be it's not. If it is God will bring you together, if not then He has the right person for you. As the Alpha and the Omega He knows the begining and the end, we see but in part. So keep trusting, keep praying, keep worshiping, and keep focused on Him.
Apologies I have gone on! I will close in prayer:
Father bless my brother Mike, give Him your strength and your wisdom, I pray for his girlfriend that may she know which way to go, and give her the strength to move on from her parents if that is the right thing for her to do. Father bless them I pray, and in faith Father I believe that if it is your will they shall be togther one day as husband and wife, as that which God has joined together no man can put asunder. In Jesus Name. Amen.
Bless you brother, I'm praying with you and standing with you at this difficult time. Your servant in Christ,
Chris
N.B FAITH = Forsaking All I Trust Him / FEAR = False Evidence Appearing Real.
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